Pyramid of needs - Maslow my self-worth - value
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n Reiss’s 16 Core Desires
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why? flavors of fulfillment that clarifies what’s important
- narratives of what defines your own success in life
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generally
- Alignment - align ur identity to ur reality/life circumstances
- always to be considered as a requisite to make the flavors meaningful or even to discover them
- Alignment - align ur identity to ur reality/life circumstances
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Enneagram motivations & fears
- ~ = fear is opposite of self-worth mechanism
- type 1 ~ acting ethically, virtuous, perfect
- fear hypocrisy or moral failure.
- Moral Integrity - aligning actions with deeply held values.
- Ethical persuits
- climate change
- sustainability
- 2 - be loved, external validation, approval, be needed, helping
- Being unwanted or unworthy of love
- Elevating others - mentoring, parenting, or inspiring
- Sanctuary & Holding Space
- creating emotional or physical safety for others
- ~3 - achievements, validati, looking (not being) successful
- not being admired & falling short of external success
- type 4 - individuality & uniqueness, authenticity
- being ordinary
- Creativity & Expression
- being silenced, misunderstood, or derivative.
- type 5 - knowledge and self-sufficient
- Being overwhelmed or incapable
- ~type 6 - safety through reassurance and trust in others
- abandoned or unsafe
- Belonging & Community
- exclusion or alienation.
- ~7 - experience & stimulation, enjoying life
- trapped in emotional distress or boredom
- 8 - independent and in control, protecting others
- powerless or vulnerable
- ~9 - mantain peace avoid conflicts
- Conflict or personal disconnection
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others
- legacy
- Impacting the world & society
- Trascendence - Spiritual or Existential Meaning
- meaninglessness or spiritual disconnection.
- sense of connection to something larger—whether it’s a religion, philosophy, or cosmic purpose
- Resilience & Endurance
- being seen as weak or broken.
- surviving hardship or “being strong” - ypain into purpose